Roommate Keeps Bringing People Over

The problem: your roommate constantly has friends over, hosts parties without asking, or brings dates home — and it's affecting your peace and comfort.

The solution starts with a calm, direct conversation. Explain how their guests impact you specifically — lost sleep, can't use shared spaces, feeling uncomfortable.

Agree on guest rules: advance notice requirements, maximum guest frequency per week, quiet hours for visitors, and which spaces are off-limits.

If talking doesn't work, refer back to your roommate agreement or house rules. If there are none, now is the time to create them together.

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